Kathy Murphy, Ph.D.

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How To Increase the Probability of Your Dreams Coming True

No bird soars too high, if he soars with his own wings.
– William Blake

I woke up this morning  frustrated with my dreams.  Not the dreams of my REM sleep cycle but the dreams I chase in the daylight hours. I think we’re all frustrated at times because we just can’t seem to figure this business of living the life of your dreams.  What the heck does that even mean?  And why isn’t it working any better for us?  I’ve got some ideas about all of this and, ultimately, some suggestions on how  to increase the possibility and the probability of our dreams coming true!

Let’s start at the beginning. Read the rest of this entry »

How to Adjust When Life Takes Unexpected Turns

I spend my days writing, teaching and speaking to countless people about Designing Your Life. This is my passion and my purpose.  I love teaching people about having a vision for their lives and tools for bringing dreams into reality.  I can help you design a beautiful plan of empowered next steps that will keep you moving forward toward your destiny.  

But….what about when plans fall apart?  I had a plan, a deeply nurtured vision of how I was going to fulfill my dream – my heart’s calling. And it was a good plan.  I could see it clear as a bell and I was working it.  Then, out of the blue, out of nowhere, came  a sharp left turn. An unforeseen turn, an unasked-for redirection, and something I definitely hadn’t planned for. This week I’ve had to deal with best laid plans…..gone awry. Read the rest of this entry »

The Secret To Being Powerful

I promise,

you are capable of so much more than you realize

and, deep down inside, you know it too.

And you do know it, don’t you?  Deep down – where the truth be told – you know you are powerful.  Deep down, you know it’s your birthright. Human beings are born naturally powerful. We are biologically and divinely programmed to survive, to thrive, to grow and to excel. Spiritually, we are meant to be happy, joyful, useful, and alive. Read the rest of this entry »

Being Alone Together

Last week, Michael and I attended a workshop with Anne LeClaire
at The Sophia Institute.   It was a transformational experience.

Twice a Month, Every Month, for Twenty Years, Anne has practiced A Day of Silence. From Sunday night at bedtime until Tuesday morning when she wakes up, she doesn’t speak. Not a word. Listening Below the Noise is her beautiful new book about this practice and she is a wise and inspiring teacher on the topic. So inspiring that my husband and I decided to practice A Day of Silence together. Read the rest of this entry »

Where Do You Want to Live?

 Not the address, not a physical place where you eat and sleep,
but the place within you that knows your heart’s longings,
the place inside that you call home.

I have a recurring dream that has always baffled me.  It baffles me because, by content alone, the dream should upset, unsettle, and scare me.  But it doesn’t.  It actually enlivens me and causes me to want to dream more.  You might say, my dream wakes me up to my life. Read the rest of this entry »